The Fruit of the Kindness: On Confrontation and Niceness
We live in a culture that continually is ruled and directed by our feelings. Truth is viewed through the litmus test of how it makes a person feel, rather than on its veracity of being truth. All of this is guised under the supposed idea of “tolerance.” Out of this new cultural norm, there are large portions of Christians who feel as if they should never confront a person for their sin or talk about any difficult issue. After all, this wouldn’t be nice to the person to confront their sin. Yet, Jesus never called his followers to be nice. Instead, He called them to understand what the risks and consequences of our actions were and to be kind. By His very presence, we must conclude that we are all sinful in need of a Savior. We are all wretched sinners in need of God to rescue us from the depths of our sin. When we refuse to confront the sins in the body of Christ for the sake of niceness, we neglect the basic commands of God and the Fruit of Kindness is nowhere to be found.